Within Asian cultures in particular, it’s often the case that the parents will try to exert some sort of heavy influence on their children to try and get them to do what they want. While this tactic is the norm in Asian countries because of the endemic culture, it’s not an acceptable method within the confines of the western sphere, which prioritizes individualism and freedom. It is, in a sense, illegal and a violation of human rights to force and manipulate another adult human being to appease your heart’s desires in the United States.
Yet, unfortunately, because of circumstances beyond their control, many immigrant children (and even adults) to the West find themselves in these situations. If you are one of those people who is trapped in a circumstance that you don’t particularly want to be in, it’s important to acknowledge that you shouldn’t get too good at whatever it is you’re doing. There will always be people above you who can see and empathize with your situation and help guide you along a path that is more appropriate for you. It just takes a bit of patience. At the end of the day, it’s very important to be interested in endeavors that you are committing a lot of time and effort into. After all, you only live once.
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